Positive and negative emotions cannot occupy the mind at the same time. One or the other must dominate. It is your responsibility to make sure that positive emotions constitute the dominating influence of your mind.
Napoleon Hill
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The reason is inside you but what is outside those are just consequences. Go try to change your surroundings and you fail. It is like wiping out the dust from the mirror you look into in an attempt to clean your own face. There is no chance nevertheless most people have been convincing themselves it really is. Some temporal changes are possible, but you are going to be disappointed eventually unless you start changing your attitude. Some ideas on how to begin are here
