Every person has been hypnotized to some degree either by ideas he has accepted from others or ideas he has convinced himself are true. These ideas have exactly the same effect upon his behavior as those implanted into the mind of a hypnotic subject by a hypnotist. Under hypnosis a normal healthy person is told she can not lift a pencil from the table and surprisingly she finds herself unable to do that. She is trying but fails. Her mind believes it is impossible.

The same way our imagination causes us to follow the rules set up the minds. But who did set them up? the average person never comes near reaching his unlimited potential because he is living under the false assumption that he already knows the truth. he believes what his parents have told him, what his teachers have taught him, what he has read, and what his religion has told him without actually proving it for himself. The example on hypnosis clearly demonstrates the fact that once a person believes something is true (weather it is true or not), he then acts as if it were. He will instinctively seek to collect facts to support the belief no matter how false they may be. No one will be able to convince him otherwise unless, through his personal experience or study, he or she is ready to change. In other words if one accepts something that is not true, all subsequent actions and reactions will be based upon a false belief. It means you can not assume that what you now hold as truth is, in fact, really the Truth. Instead, you must keep in mind that you are presently hypnotized by false believes and values that are holding you back from expressing your true potential. So our job here would be to awaken from that freaking hypnosis. In his book “The ultimate secrets of total self-confidence” Dr. Robert Anthony sets it this way: The degree to which you awaken will be in direct proportion to the amount of Truth you can accept about yourself. And if you are really sincere about changing your own life and increasing your self-confidence, you must have an open mind.

To solve this problem I have resorted to the concept offered by a physicist and philosopher Dr. Zeland that he called The Space of Variations. The point is there are many sciences involved in the research of different fields of our reality and each of them deals with it’s particular aspect. They might even contradict each to other in the attempts to set that very Truth. The only thing they all would agree with altogether is that our world is diverse, or multi-variable. It is like an infinite set of causes and effects stored in so called Space of variations. All the past, upcoming and possible events of your life have been reflected in there. So the reality is that much variable due to the infinity of variations ever possible. And every particular starting point gives you a specific pattern of successive events. Guess who is in charge of choosing that initial point? Would you believe me if I say that is YOU? Making choices is all you need to be the one you want to be. The problem here is most of us don’t even know who they want to be. And this is about the choice either. That undecided state of living is what actually makes your life so boring and pathetic. In other words the way you think determines the way you live so you simply get what you eventually choose. But the real choice is when you are totally committed to making real steps towards the goal you have chosen. Some mistakes I used to do before and which can be considered as contrast triggers for action you can find on my page “Why you suck”. The choice is yours!