the Order of Chaos

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There is a difference between feeling gratitude and appreciation for something, and feeling attachment to something. Appreciation and gratitude are states of pure love, while attachment contains fear – fear of losing or not having what you are attached to. When it comes to something you want in your life, appreciation and gratitude attracts, and attachment pushes away. If you are feeling afraid that you will not get what you want, or losing what you have, then you have attachment. To remove the attachment, keep shifting yourself into a state of appreciation and gratitude, until you can feel that the fear has gone.

From The Secret Daily Teachings by Rhonda Byrne

1. Learning ability
2. Goal orientation
3. Self-perception

Why your self-discipline is so frustrating?  Here are some points to think about.

1. I don’t know what I really want
2. Lack of planning
3. Bad priorities setting
4. Overreacting on external signals, getting distracted from your current task
5. Can’t see the results, that is why don’t believe in success

Those who REALLY want to succeed MUST constantly and diligently improve his/her skills.

Seminars, trainings, books, classes, podcasts, webinars, news – whatever it takes to advance your personality. Step by step, no fake excuses and procrastinations. Every day, hour, second and whatever the weather is outside.

Every time I awake at the mornings I feel some disappointment on what my life is. It seemed just yesterday like I had very positive mindset and where all that is now. Damn it.

How to be what some call “infatigable worker”?

Why do we resist doing what we can in this moment? Because we might fail. If you get right down to the core of it, you will see that people act powerless because it’s far easier to blame circumstances than go ahead and do it anyway, and maybe look really stupid in the process. So we give our power away to others. It’s like we’re saying, “No, please, YOU take my power. This way I can blame YOU if things don’t work out”.

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Hope can be a form of scarcity. There are those who live in hope and those who produce hope. What does it mean to be a producer of hope? People who produce hope are creators. People who live in hope are those who just wish and wait for things to change.

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You have probably heard of so called inner voices telling us from time to tome what is good and what is not. They can appear every minute or even second. “Why you didn’t do that in time?”, “What are your plans for tommorrow?”, “I am so lazy”, “They don’t like me” and the like. Where are they all coming from?

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Obstacles are those frightful things you see when you take

your eyes off your goal

For most people obstacles are just things they feel the lack of. This could me anything . Time, money, knowledge, experience, power, connections and you name it. Once come to your mind they make you stuck and frustrated.

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Good habits are hard to develop but easy to live with and bad habits are easy to develop but hard to live with

Brian Tracy

Habits are patterns of thought and behavior our mind and body has become accustomed to. And when we try to change that pattern, our internal mechanism reacts. Sometimes it gets angry, sometimes it gets depressed, and often times it gets stressed. It is important to find healthy outlets for these emotions. Some effective outlets are exercise, finding a hobby you enjoy, or simply changing your environment for the moment and going outside to the park or beach.

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