You have probably heard of so called inner voices telling us from time to tome what is good and what is not. They can appear every minute or even second. “Why you didn’t do that in time?”, “What are your plans for tommorrow?”, “I am so lazy”, “They don’t like me” and the like. Where are they all coming from?
As I realized they mostly come from the childhood. And I liked an idea of considering them as subpersonalities.
In other words there are several (not to say hundreds) personalities in each of us coming up on the scene in different life situations. You might have noticed how ofently we repeat our parents behavioural patterns in our own life. They are being transduced from one person to another just like viruses are. And our childhood is the most susceptible time for that transduction. Most of them play a protective role for the individual but they can restrain your freedom either.This is what the book called Embrace Ourselves: The Voice Dialogue Manual written by a couple of Stones about. The worst part of that is you lose your identity because those subpersonalities permanently take control of you mind and body. This is just like “stimulus-response” attitude. No brain just reactions. Some examples are “Loser”, “Procrastinator”, “Lazy”, “Sceptic” and most of them we take from our parents. But wait where are youself than? That is the question I ask myself every single day and suggest you to do the same.



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