Each of us had been originally accustomed to comply with someone’s will, to carry out the duties, to truly serve your homeland, your family, your company, some ideas etc. To whatever but yourself. Everyone has some sense of duty, responsibility and … guilt to a certain extent. 
An individual is one way or another ‘being in service’ with certain social groups and organizations namely families, clubs, schools, institutions, states and you name it. All those structures are born and developing once some separate group of people start to think and act in the same direction. Then new people join the structure followed by its expansion and power accumulation. It makes the members follow the established rules and eventually is able to dominate over people comprising that. Such kind of arrangements are called the pendulums. The more people involved the stronger they fluctuate so every particular one has its on frequency. When there is less adherents the oscillations decay.
Some examples of extinct pendulums are: ancient pagan religions, old fashion, country political regimes and so on. In other words these are all that had been existed before but not used nowadays. Any organized uniform structures of living organisms are considered to be the pendulums either. Such a form of organization is said to be independent since it develops by itself and in compliance with its own rules. The followers don’t realize they act on the pendulum’s dictation rather than their own will. Any given pendulum is destructive by its nature since it takes your energy away and sets up an authority over you. The pendulum doesn’t care about your happiness and well being. Its ultimate goal is to get your energy. An individual who turned out to be under the influence of the system has to build up his life in agreement with its laws otherwise the system would set you aside. It is very easy to get into a system but so hard to escape without any losses. Once in the system you lose your freedom. They weaned us form being able to choose our destiny. They need the right people rather than best ones. They do not tolerate individuality. If you struggle with it you simply give your energy away. More detailed explanation on pendulums and how they work can be found in Vadim Zeland’s amazing book Reality Transurfing: The Space of Variations.
It is worth to mention about different kind of human psychological complexes either. Any given complex is actually when something touches your home. The inferiority complex due to your appearance, weight, intellect, communication skills is one of the widely used triggers the pendulums resort to in their vigorous attempts to get you entrapped. Just by looking around you could notice their snares set nearby. Thus all these triggers inside you are in fact the keys to our energy – justice, pride, vanity, honor, love, hatred, greed, generosity, curiosity, interest, hunger and you name it – all of them can be used as tools to manipulate. As a rule we are prone to stereotypically respond to external stimuli. One can realize that negative thoughts and conduct do not bring anything good but keeps doing everything by force of habit and thus making mistakes all the time.
As you know the habits are extremely hard to eradicate because they serve as an illusion of comfort. We used to believe in what we are accustomed to since it had empirically proved to be functional and predictable.
So who is to blame? Pendulums? Habits? Both? The point is this is another habit to look for someone or something to blame. Indeed how long are you going to avoid the responsibility for your own life???



Hi, good post. I have been wondering about this issue,so thanks for posting.
Great post, I’d say it sums up the feelings of many people. And I like the pendulum concept. Now as far as who is to blame? I’d say habits that people choose not to divulge from. People will knowingly give their energy to a pendulum that does not properly take care of them simply because it is easier to do so than it would be to start their own pendulum that would provide them with the proper care. However, doing so would require the support of others and trying to take away from the competing pendulum that is already in full swing and will not be easy to slow down.
Hi, good post. I have been wondering about this issue,so thanks for posting.